Most importantly, really love her. To love her, you have to love yourself, especially your own femininity. If you don’t love yourself, how can you love another? If you don’t love your own femininity, how can you love your woman?

Always be affectionate and loving. Be her best friend at all times, not just when you want to get laid. Touch her often. Don’t wait until you’re horny. For most women, whenever their man touches them, it’s a signal that he wants sex.

When you and her are making love, be in touch with your heart and express your love. Cry out and sing with her. Let her know that you are enjoying her too, that it’s not just your dick.

If you do love your woman and can express it to her, she will be blessed. Many men are uptight sexually, yet there are so many women who can’t get off by fucking alone. But many men know of nothing else – or if they do, they are too afraid of the feminine to do anything about it.

Go down on your lover. Women like this. They all want you to focus on their pleasure for a change. Pay homage to the Goddess at her main altar, between your woman’s legs. What better place to worship the feminine?

The main difference between a man and a woman sexually is the slowness of the woman’s response compared to that of the man’s. If you do want to please your woman, slow down. There’s no hurry. And make sure that she gets off before or as you do.

The man who is focused upon his woman’s pleasure will learn a great secret here. If you are one with your woman while you are making love, you will feel what she feels – and her pleasure is always much more intense than yours could ever be.

And afterwards, don’t leave her immediately for your thoughts. Continue to hold and caress her. Stay in your own body for awhile too. Stay with the feelings. By all this, she will know that it wasn’t just your lust speaking of love.